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The survey, entitled “Sex and the American Mom,” polled a nationwide group of more than 30,000 mothers with at least one child. The poll was conducted entirely online at cookiemag.com and AOL Body.
“The somewhat startling statistics invite a closer look at the state of sex and the American marriage. As a magazine for moms who are trying to have it all and keep it all together, we are trying to get at the problems of marriage, which often play out in the bedroom,” says Pilar Guzman, editor-in-chief of Cookie.
Cheating
A whopping 34 percent of women admitted to having had an affair since having kids, and more than half (53 percent) said they have thought about it.
Moms Fantasize About Sex with the Other Men:
Fifty-eight percent of women said they fantasize about sex with coworkers, delivery men, and other dads. As far as celebrities go, moms said they fantasize most about George Clooney, Tom Brady, and Barack Obama.
Moms’ Priorities
Sixty percent said that sex ranks at the bottom of their list of tensions, below money, raising the kids, and in-laws; however, 29 percent said that they would rather have sex than lose 10 pounds or get more sleep.
Moms’ Favorite Ways to Spark the Home Fires
Twenty-three percent of moms surveyed said porn is their favorite way to spark the home fires, while 39 percent said they prefer to simply hang out with their husband to get in the mood, 21 percent said they use alcohol, and 17 percent fantasy play.
Moms and Sex
Nineteen percent of moms revealed that they have sex once a week and 32 percent said they have it more often than that; seventy-seven percent said they want to have sex more frequently. Sixty-nine percent of those surveyed said they are willing to have sex to please their husbands even when they are not in the mood.
Time for a Babysitter?
While 36 percent of the moms reported that their attraction to their husbands is the same as it was before having kids, more than half (59 percent) said that they feel inhibited from having sex when the kids are home.
Source: Cookie Magazine